I totally missed this thread, title does not go along with content.
Christmas is far, here in my part of the world we would be having a firework festival on new moon this month (Diwali).
Give a plant as a gift, last time I gifted an aloe vera (medicinal herb), with good intention but it turned out that person has a blind belief

(thorny plant create disturbance in family, quarrel, etc).
Next time I visited, I found the same pot with their neighbor

, thriving

. At least they did not threw it away.
I learned my lesson, so from that day on, I give flowers (if you have allergy to any particular flower not my problem, blame the florist) and chocolate slabs (none can deny, all ages can enjoy).
Now a days, fruit bouquet are in trend, its quite amusing. they either carve flowers out of fruits or simply poke whole fruits with stick to make the bouquet.(IDK

whether to eat it or keep it).
Anyway gift is a gift, depends solely on receivers attitude. I let my shining star, my little lady

choose the gift for family, she know who needs what

.