Some squash varieties show this white pigment. It looks like mildew but it isn't. If the white areas grow larger it is a mildew but this picture shows a normal leaf. You should snip off one of the squash plants. Your tomato does not need water, if it did the leaves would be drooping downward. The reason the leaves are curling upward is climatic. Either the humidity , the wind or the temperature has changed dramatically. My tomatoes do the same thing every time the humidity goes from low to high or vice versa rapidly. It is temporary