What do your friends say about you liking gardening?

Joined
Apr 19, 2015
Messages
2,057
Reaction score
2,002
Location
Emerald Victoria
Showcase(s):
1
Hardiness Zone
10a
Country
Australia
I can't imagine what I'd do if I didn't garden....fresh air, sunshine, gentle exercise (mind you I deadheaded the agapanthas today and worked up a sweat and I'm only halfway through), calming thoughts, anticipation of whats to come and such satisfaction. And love a garden chat, luckily I have 3 friends who love it as much as I do so and we love a visit to a nursery. We have been known to come home with the car packed to the rafters, plants filling the boot, the floor, and our laps. :LOL: We share cuttings and ideas and it's all very exciting. When I say I can't imagine what I'd do if I didnt garden I didn't till 5 years ago and I think now how boring my life must have been. I was missing out and didn't know it.:p
 
Joined
Mar 6, 2016
Messages
14
Reaction score
10
Country
United States
I can't understand why anyone would rather sit inside on a nice day and watch TV. I've just always liked being outside and taking in nature. I really enjoy the thought process and looking at the different areas of my yard and coming up with new gardening/landscaping ideas for this spring and summer.
 
Joined
Dec 11, 2014
Messages
2,787
Reaction score
1,120
Location
Brantford,ON
Showcase(s):
3
Hardiness Zone
Zone 5
Country
Canada
Anybody can grow plants. The crux of the matter is PRESERVATION for off season use. Root cellar, pressure canning, dehydration, dried produce, freezing, and pickling. They all have their uses. QED.
 
Joined
Feb 23, 2019
Messages
113
Reaction score
86
Location
New England
Hardiness Zone
6
Country
United States
When we moved into our house in 1992 it was a blank slate, newly built with only what the builder called a seeded ;awn (seeded with weeds, I believe!). I set to work planting, both vegetables and landscape plants. The rest of the homes (all built before ours had standard cookie cutter shrubs in front of the houses. I went a different way, a cottage style garden. The wives of the neighborhood loved it but husbands hated me for it. One told me I was stirring up trouble because the wives would buy plants and tell the husbands to plant them so the yards would look more like mine. I promptly told him, if I buy the plant, I plant it myself - my husband wouldn't even know how! I had no complaints when I had a large (110' by 35') vegetable garden and shared my produce. Most gardens have reverted back to shrubs, and I am overhauling my gardens since I am now retired. I wonder what trouble I will stir up this time??;) By the way, my husband thinks I am a lunatic to consider work in a garden fun, but he loves the look of the gardens.
 
Joined
Jan 31, 2018
Messages
3,382
Reaction score
3,800
Location
The Tropic of Trafford
Hardiness Zone
Keir Hardy
Country
United Kingdom
Don't discuss gardening very often with anyone outside my family, nor my other hobbies, other than on message boards, (gardening never comes up as a topic over lunch at my golf club)
Occasionally, someone may visit us, or more likely my wife, they often seem surprised at our garden if they see it through the French windows, I never mention it.
The question I have been asked is, "Have you done all this since you retired?" To which I always reply truthfully, "No, I did it when I was working and had more time."
 
Joined
Feb 2, 2020
Messages
72
Reaction score
52
Country
Spain
My friends mostly grow flowers in England.
Here, ( thanks to the former owner) I grow avocados, almonds, olives, chestnuts, walnuts, nispera, tree tomatoes, feijoa, peaches, pears, apples, oranges, lemons, cherimoya, grapes, kiwi, hazelnuts, chard, pomegranate, and some things I haven´t yet identified.
I´ve heard that you can eat nasturtiums.
If you´re really desperate.
Check for earwigs ...
 
Joined
Jun 2, 2015
Messages
938
Reaction score
548
Location
New England
Hardiness Zone
6
Country
United States
I've been retired 10 years now and my neighbors still think I'm crazy for spending so much time in the garden. I grow only veggies that I know I'll eat and plants things I like. I also have 5 aquariums that keep me busy all winter.
 
Joined
Mar 28, 2015
Messages
5,074
Reaction score
4,400
Location
Southern Chester County, PA, USA
Hardiness Zone
4 to 5 best for success.
Country
United States
I've been retired 10 years now and my neighbors still think I'm crazy for spending so much time in the garden. I grow only veggies that I know I'll eat and plants things I like. I also have 5 aquariums that keep me busy all winter.
Neighbors actually say that to you? They think your spending to much time in the garden. I must be lucky, I have a good neighbor to the right of me, he and I are of like minded. No one says a thing to me about my garden interests.
 

Ask a Question

Want to reply to this thread or ask your own question?

You'll need to choose a username for the site, which only take a couple of moments. After that, you can post your question and our members will help you out.

Ask a Question

Members online

No members online now.

Forum statistics

Threads
26,865
Messages
258,814
Members
13,377
Latest member
ek5932

Latest Threads

Top