My urologist told me that I could *TRY* the IC diet, but not to take it too seriously because not every patient would have the same triggers. He said that the IC diet eliminated the most COMMON triggers, but that I might have other triggers as well, and that I might not react at all to many of the foods the IC diet allowed.
I learned that I could eat small amounts of forbidden foods as long as I did not eat too much. So I only get a flare up about once a month, at which time I take Tylenol..
Yesterday, for example I went out with my husband, to a belated Valentine's day dinner affair at the VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars building). The VFW has it every year as a fund raiser. So, I forgot all about the IC and, while I ate lightly of trigger foods out of habit, I forgot and I ate several different trigger foods! I had a small glass of wine, a large salad with Italian dressing, some rather spicy Dorito chips, and that sugar-free brownie did not sit well and it left my stomach feeling irritated so I think it made things worse. It tasted just like a regular chocolaty brownie but I rarely eat baked sugar-free items so I simply do not know how well I tolerate it!
Needless to say, with wine PLUS Italian dressing PLUS the spice on the chips PLUS (possibly) the artificial sweetener, I got up 3 times last night having to run to the bathroom! (If I had been less tired I would have realized that I needed Tylenol but I was half asleep and it did not occur to me. It has been a long time since I had even such a mild flare up and besides I was very tired)
I eat small amounts of any and all of those foods and it does not bother me but it all adds up if I eat that much in a single night!
(Actually I regret nothing! I was acquainted with the other people at the table and we all laughed and talked and DH got pleasantly sloshed and forgot he was tone deaf and so during the Karaoke he forgot he was tone-deaf and he brought me up to the front so he could serenade me with "Nights of White Satin". Did I mention he is tone deaf? It was terribly sweet, and he was a bit drunk and so I had to drive him home.for the third time in the 40 years we have been together. I regret NOTHING, other than that I did not think to take Tylenol last night.
I realize that my IC is now very very mild: I REMEMBER what a bad flare up feels like! But since I identified my own personal triggers I am rarely bothered, unless like last night, I simply forget and eat too much of the trigger foods. Meowmie you have my heart felt sympathy while you are trying to get things under control: I have been there and done that.
I now know that I can have a few onion rings but a few is enough. A little bit of spice is fine but the spicier the food the smaller portion I will eat. And, since I drank a glass of wine last night I REALLY! should have chosen Ranch dressing instead of Italian! We are all different, and with some thought and work I hope that your IC dies down as well!