Thank you so much chuck! That makes sense, I was very concerned with the sudden bugs too (none of my other nearby plants have them). As for teh squash I will send a picture when I can but I was getting a ton of female blossoms that would barely begin to grow, get brown/black at the end, and wither. I still got 4 viable ones though that grew just fine despite having a withered flower at the end.
Also, the bush beans I have in between them are doing just fine if that provides any more context.